10 BDSM Myths

10 BDSM Myths

10 BDSM Myths on Youtube My latest Youtube video features 10 BDSM Myths that get under my skin. The recent popularity of BDSM in the media, with series like 50 Shades and Submission, spread lots of half truths about my chosen lifestyle. I want to spread some truth.   Watch 10 BDSM Myths Dispelled on Youtube or check out the BDSM Relationships & Education Channel Share Your Myths Do you have any BDSM myths that you find funny, angering or just plain silly? Are you unsure if something you’ve heard about…

Talking to Your Partner About BDSM

Talking to Your Partner About BDSM

Talking to your partner about BDSM can be intimidating, don’t make the same mistakes that Christian did! (Watch the video on Youtube) (Watch the whole Real 50 Shades Series) Introduce BDSM gently In my latest video from my Real 50 Shades series, I talk about the scene where Christian introduces Ana to the idea of BDSM. In my opinion, he does a pretty bad job of it. Talking to your partner about BDSM I go through the scene, step by step, to point out the mistakes he made and tell…

Ask! – Dom Likes Submissive Activities?

Ask! – Dom Likes Submissive Activities?

Hi me and my girlfriend are into a ddlg and I like thing that are normally submissive (foot worship, being pissed on, pegging) but I doubt want to give up dominance could you help me figure out how to do these in a dominant way specifically pegging. Submissive Activities? There is an idea, a very common one, in BDSM that some activities are dominant and some are submissive activities. It’s really a shame that this idea is so widespread because it puts limits on what a person ‘should’ enjoy. Many…

Youtube Video Series

Youtube Video Series

I have just launched a new Youtube channel aimed at BDSM education. The channel features a few different video series, each looking at a different aspect of kink. BDSM Basics The first series is called BDSM Basics. These videos will talk about the fundamental aspects of BDSM, starting with a video on consent. The videos will start with a general overview of the subject at hand, with more detailed videos added if needed. For instance, in the first video on consent, I briefly talk about resistance play and consensual non-consent….

Ask! – Alpha Sub?

Ask! – Alpha Sub?

What is the definition of an “Alpha Sub”? I’m new to BDM and believe it might apply to me.  There are a few possible answers to this question, so let’s take a look at each of them! Alpha Sub in Leather Family/BDSM House An alpha sub appears most often in leather families or other BDSM houses. The alpha sub is the ‘head submissive’ or the submissive with the most seniority and experience. Think of them as a Major Domo – they assist in the running of the household and instruct…